Make Love, Not Bombs
You Can’t Change Him
Negotiating a Lover
Catch Him if You Can: The Hook
Something New
Stupid Questions About Love
Catch Him if You Can: The Bait
Women Only Want You For Your Potential



on June 4, 2010 at 6:29 amsdaedalus
Lily

I think what you might be trying to say is similar to what I said in the comments to this post on Ulysses’s site, am I right?

http://hiddenleaves.wordpress.com/2010/06/02/the-expectations-of-mean-vs-the-realities-of-nice/#comments

I have a theory that although some women are attracted to bad boys because they want to be treated badly, some women are just attracted because bad boy traits mirror or give the impression of some non-bad traits that betas lack, these women don’t actually want to be treated badly, they just misjudge the man. If we could identify these traits then we could create an uber race of men who were not shits, but not betas either…

I don’t think this applies to all women though, some women really do just like badness, it is a non-negotiable characteristic where they are concerned.


on June 4, 2010 at 6:39 amsdaedalus

---