Importance of being honest in relationships
Is She The One You Love?
Keeping Separate Accounts Develops Happier Relationships
Know why we need friends
Myths related to Divorce busted
Poor gifts affect relationship
Recovering from Broken Relationships
Secrets of Attracting A Man
She Loves me?
I had been one of the women you asked on HUS “what do you have to offer besides sex”.
…I couldn’t answer your question at the time because I honestly had no idea. I had been taught that the only valuable asset I need to bring into a relationship is my virginity. As long as I’m a good Christian woman that goes to Church every week and follows the Church’s teachings, I’m entitled to a good man that will provide for me. I was taught that men owe me; men are supposed to bring all the important assets to the table. I’m embarrassed to admit that at one point I thought men who expected more from women were selfish and lazy.
Now that I have a boyfriend whom I love dearly I realize that everything I had been told is absolute nonsense. I inadvertently took the red pill when I fell in love. I realized that my actions could have negative effects on my boyfriend’s well being. I love him too much to ever allow my own selfish desires somehow hurt him. Although I’m a virgin it doesn’t give me the right to make outrageous materialistic demands.
You know, despite all the advice I’ve been given – I’ve never once had a woman tell me “be considerate of your boyfriend’s feelings; try to empathize with him”. How could no one ever tell me this? It’s the most important relationship rule I follow! & the frightening thing is, one could debate that love without empathy isn’t even love at all. No wonder so many women these days casually file for divorce; they probably never loved their husbands in the first place.
Is She The One You Love?
Keeping Separate Accounts Develops Happier Relationships
Know why we need friends
Myths related to Divorce busted
Poor gifts affect relationship
Recovering from Broken Relationships
Secrets of Attracting A Man
She Loves me?
I had been one of the women you asked on HUS “what do you have to offer besides sex”.
…I couldn’t answer your question at the time because I honestly had no idea. I had been taught that the only valuable asset I need to bring into a relationship is my virginity. As long as I’m a good Christian woman that goes to Church every week and follows the Church’s teachings, I’m entitled to a good man that will provide for me. I was taught that men owe me; men are supposed to bring all the important assets to the table. I’m embarrassed to admit that at one point I thought men who expected more from women were selfish and lazy.
Now that I have a boyfriend whom I love dearly I realize that everything I had been told is absolute nonsense. I inadvertently took the red pill when I fell in love. I realized that my actions could have negative effects on my boyfriend’s well being. I love him too much to ever allow my own selfish desires somehow hurt him. Although I’m a virgin it doesn’t give me the right to make outrageous materialistic demands.
You know, despite all the advice I’ve been given – I’ve never once had a woman tell me “be considerate of your boyfriend’s feelings; try to empathize with him”. How could no one ever tell me this? It’s the most important relationship rule I follow! & the frightening thing is, one could debate that love without empathy isn’t even love at all. No wonder so many women these days casually file for divorce; they probably never loved their husbands in the first place.