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if this is your normal response mechanism, you’re probably putting out a similar vibe in your pickups and overall interactions with others (girls are a subset of this). in short, FUCK THAT SHIT.

now, go read what yareally wrote in that threat he linked to and you will see that he directly addresses your concern. internalize what he suggests and then try it on for size.

• YaReally

on January 31, 2013 at 5:46 am

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@Falconer

All good man, we all went through that stage. :) Hang in there, look at this as something that could take a few years of investment to get a handle on. You’re like a 300lbs dude hitting the gym once or twice a week…it’s gonna take some time before you’re down to a normal weight.

Slow & steady. Learn to emotionally detach yourself from your results and analyze where you’re fucking up like an athlete watching footage of himself to figure out his sticking points and what to work on and taking advice from trainers on how to improve.

Don’t let the reactions of girls determine your worth as a human being, they’re just silly girls. :)

• immoralgables

on January 29, 2013 at 3:18 pm

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Hey man I think your text game might be fucked up. Understand that going from a makeout on a Friday to being propositioned to meetup for drinks on a tuesday is like trying to merge onto the highway while still in first gear. Spike her buying temp, develop some rapport and suavely shift gears into meeting up. I went thru a similar stumbling block a few months ago and Ripp, YaReally and a couple others helped me see the limitations in my strategy, which is very similar to yours. I made a compilation of the next texting advice into a word doc which you can download at the link below. Read that and the embedded PDF and then tell me if you didn’t learn anything. Best of luck my man.

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